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Fear is one of the best forms of foreplay you can ever do. It leaves your imagination running wild and your body quivering for a touching.

Given the fact that Halloween is just around the corner, there’s nothing wrong with getting in the spirit of things by having some scary sex! There are many things you can do with your man to amp up the fear tactics. The secret is finding your man’s deepest fear and using it against him. Once you come to the rescue and act as the "hero", it will only go up from there (in more ways than one). Here are a few games that always seem to work:

1) Blindfolded hide & seek

Not only will this get you and your man excited, but it has the potential to mentally stir you up. The obstacle to "find each other" combined with the physical barrier of the blindfold creates an up and down roller coaster experience of panic which all pays off once you find him.

To make it a little more interesting, have only one of you wear the blindfold. This way, the person who can’t see has no other choice but to be at the other’s mercy.

2) Candlelit sex

If you really want to get in the spirit of things, nothing says Halloween like lighting an entire room full of candles, putting on some bass-thumbing music, and going at it in the middle of the room like sacrificial lambs. The whole thing is ritualistic, pagan, possibly "evil" looking, but the thrill of it might be worth the attempt.

If your man is a bit scared of these kinds of scenarios, don’t tell him beforehand. Let him come home to find you in the middle of a candlelit circle, wearing nothing but boxers and a smile while cerebral music plays in the background. When he enters the circle of candles, you will both get the feeling like you’re doing something naughty, exciting, thrilling, erotic, and everything else, using each other’s bodies as your own form of phony sacrifice.

3) Surprise “burglar” sex

Like a scene out of American Horror Story, sneak up on your man wearing a mask or full body costume. Obviously he will know it’s you, but still, there’s always a question in the back of his mind: "Is it really him?".

This question will make the experience more intense, allowing the fear to build. Never take off the mask, even during sex. Once it’s over, sneak away and change clothes. Return to the bedroom and play dumb about it. The teasing alone might get you both riled up for round 2.

4) Haunted exploration

Do some research on some of the haunted places in your area. It could be a graveyard, an abandoned building, or even a haunted bridge. Once you decide on a location, bring a couple flashlights and go for a drive with your man. When you get there, convince him to investigate the area with you. The idea that it might be haunted will increase his adrenaline and heart rate.

When the time is right, find a way to initiate sexual discussion. Eventually make your way down his pants and give him one of the best BJs he will ever have. Because his heart rate is already going a million miles an hour, the intensity will be multiplied.

5) Play “evil” doctor & mental patient

For those who are scared to death of hospitals, playing doctor might be right up your ally. It involves sex toys and a spot on doctor’s outfit. In a sense, it’s role play but much more intense whereby the "doctor" makes all the rules, and the "patient" has zero say in what happens to him.

The doctor can gag the patient, tie him up on a table, give him a phony diagnosis along with a "cure" of sorts. He can straddle him, whip him, force him to drink medicine (flavored vodka works best) all at random times so the patient will never know what’s coming next.

So are you down for some scary sex?